I need some
photos of the pigeons you keep, he sends me a photo of his
cats, he tells me: “these are pigeons that say: “Meow,
Meow”!” - Ahmed, Gaza, May 2015
Who
would have known that there would be some Palestinian who
listens to Eminem or 50 Cent? Who would have known that
someone here would be willing to do jumps like this one?
(pictured above) Who would have known that this person would
be having the hardest of times coping with his life?
The
first time I met Ahmed at some course, I had the impression
that he is a spoiled kid who never had a problem in his
life. While the rest of us in this mean place called Gaza
are having lots of hardships.
You could easily be fooled
by his sense of humor, his ever laughing nature, and his
cheerful spirit. However, Ahmed was my first encounter with
the fact that if someone laughs too much, then they are
lonely deep inside. This was when he first invited me to his
house.
The first time I walked into that house I got
shocked by how it is damaged and on the verge of collapsing.
It had damaged walls and ceiling, it had also some rooms
without a door, instead just a piece of wood.
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Then, after all that
suffering from working here and there, learning to fix
everything his hands could touch, and help supporting his
family, his mother died in 2012.
When this happened, he
almost lost his mind. Her prayers for him before he went out
were the thing that kept him going. Now this source of light
went out. He became alone; unemployed, and still had to
support his brothers and sister.
All this never stopped
him from struggling to provide his little family with what
they could survive with. He got by in the end with help from
his friends, and jobs he could win because of his multiple
talents. All of these were things that kept him going, but
they would not be enough, especially when you feel lonely
inside.
Now he tries to
surround himself with friends, family and even pets. Ahmed
likes animals more than any other person I have seen. He
likes to keep cats and pigeons and likes to take
affectionate photos of them all the time.
Ahmed is also an adept
football player, able to dodge all other players and then
score, or at least he used to be before his knee got
injured. As of now he needs an operation that he cannot
afford. But yet he keeps moving forward.
As if all this
was not enough struggle for Ahmed.
"Why would those who
start conflicts not take into account that there are people
who care nothing about their political issues and just wish
to live peacefully like everybody else on this planet?", he
asks.
Just like his life, Ahmed's only shelter is barely
standing with a lot of cracks and dents in the Zinc roof.
His house being located near Gaza's borders, it is
vulnerable to damage by any kind of attack. And is
threatened every time a conflict occursin Gaza, directly or
indirectly.
Ahmed is still struggling to
find a job using his hard earned Civil Engineering degree.
In the meantime he has developed the mentality of a
businessman. He has started several businesses and reached
the point of failure several times because of the ever
fluctuating economi state in Gaza.
He does all this
because family comes first - he likes to say - wishing
that this would help him get a decent life and also help him
fix his house that is falling apart.
As I leave I wish
him all the best and for his life to change. I have rarely
encountered someone who has a loving heart like
his.
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Yaser Harara is an English writing student
living and working in the Gaza Strip. He wrote this article
for Scoop as part of a programme called "We Are Not Numbers"
which pairs Gazan students with international editors and
mentors. Yaser is being mentored by Scoop Editor and
Publisher Alastair Thompson.
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