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Dating can be Deadly

Media Release – For immediate Release 11.30 am ,July 21, 2009

Dating can be Deadly


“The trial of Clayton Weatherston reminds us that you don’t need to be married or living together to be at risk of injury or death from your current or ex. Extreme partner violence can occur in any form of relationship,” said Cary Hayward, National Practice Manager of Relationship Services.

“This case also highlights that violence in relationships happens in all sectors of society. This is a well educated, articulate man who has resorted to violence on a number of occasions in response to relationship pressures.”

“Violence is never acceptable in a relationship. Women need to be safe from violence in relationships and in their own home,” said Mr Hayward.

Warning signs in a relationship include possessiveness, jealousy and controlling behaviour. Stalking and choking are particularly strong danger signs. “People need to be aware that these are not part of a normal, healthy relationship, and should take action.”

“If you know someone at risk in a relationship, encourage them to seek help.”

Services are available to help people in violent relationships, whether they are dating or living together. These services are free, and provided by a range of agencies including Relationship Services.


Relationship Warning Signs:
• Extreme possessiveness
• Jealousy
• Controlling Behaviour
• Stalking
• Choking

These are indicators of a potential risk of violence. People may need professional help to leave such a relationship safely.

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